Two paths

Proverbs 16:25  "There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death."

Oh how following our own best laid plans can lead us into trouble.  When I say "our" best laid plans, I'm talking about times where we take the reins of life or of a particular situation and steer it in the direction that seems best for us and us alone.  This is very different than taking our options to God in prayer and seeking His will.

In the end, both paths may look the same- we have to make a choice and take some action.  But the position in our heart is very different.  With a heart that truly wants to be in alignment with God's will (at least as best as we can discern His will at the time), God will honor that.

Honoring doesn't always mean that the choice in and of itself will be successful.  He is still sovereign and is under no obligation to bless us.  But if we continue to seek His will and ask for guidance and wisdom, He will work all things for ultimate good. 

"Ultimate good" is defined in His terms, not ours.  Our job is to trust and follow as best we can, and God is in charge of the ultimate results.